I am going to lay out a pretty simple concept: None of us are actually living in our bodies. This may not exactly be news to you. I mean, we hear some version of this over and over: We need to be more present! We are getting caught in our minds! Meditate!!!!!!!! Yea Yea Yea. […]

Seriously… Fuck flattering. Looking back, I spent every moment since growing boobs, trying to wear the most flattering and “slimming” outfits and shirts. (I wear a bra size G, thankyouverymuch.) Can’t wear a big shirt! I’ll look pregnant! Must accentuate my waist without making my boobs look too big! Must fool the world into thinking I […]

i reject all your rules i reject your shoulds, your structure, your guilt, i reject all the things that made me feel like I wasn’t ‘doing life right’. my freedom came when I realized that success is not what i thought it was. prestige is hollow. success isn’t praise or fame, it is peace and space and joy. […]