Before I get any angry comments about alcoholism: I am not saying “yay alcoholism!” If you cannot drink in moderation, it is most likely a coping mechanism for deeper issues. (So let’s deal with the deeper issues!) But this post is for people who are afraid of beer, wine, or liquor for the calories or weight gain. People who feel […]

January 7, 2014

In Defense of Beer, Wine, and Liquor

Seriously. Stop. If you are addicted at all to exercising, stop. If you have any past of restrictive eating or imbalanced energy intake and expenditure, stop. Stop stop stop. I know how addictive exercise can be to a disordered eating/body dysmorphic mind. I know. I also know that moving and weight bearing activity can feel […]

December 7, 2013

Stop Exercising

Controlling food is a microcosm of the bigger picture: The way we look at our whole lives. We tend to treat food the way we wish we could treat everything. We want to control it, we don’t trust it to work out, and we don’t trust ourselves to make the right decisions. Eating can then […]

November 17, 2013

Don’t Shrink Yourself Away